some comfort and joy

Blessing (& Giveaway)

Blessing for the dawn*

On the wild edge,

on the threshold,

when you are unsure, longing, and vulnerable

may you be held with love

In the distress,

In the defeat,

When you find that you dwell in the dust

may you find the hidden place of peace

In the long night,

in the holding vigil,

when you are betting on daylight:

may you awake to joy

*This blessing comes from Unhappy Holidays: Blessings for a Blue Christmas, Sherah-Leigh’s newly released Advent devotional.

As we move into the holiday season, we’re hosting a giveaway! Leave a comment on this post by midnight on Wednesday, November 5, 2025, and you will be eligible to win a signed copy of Unhappy Holidays along with a custom mug created by our friend at Muddy Creek Ceramics.

We often think of the Christmas season as a time of good cheer, but what happens when the reality of life stands in stark contrast to these expectations? When the nest is empty or family relationships are strained? Cancer diagnoses, divorce proceedings, and natural disasters do not care about calendar time. How do we live into the spirit of Christmas when things feel bleak?

With thoughtful reflections and compassionate blessings drawn from the familiar biblical texts of Advent, Unhappy Holidays invites readers to recover a sense of hope and notice how God shows up in daily life amid our heartache, grief, and loss.

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And in case you missed it, we wrote a book! Comfort and Joy: Readings and Practices for Advent may be a wonderful companion for you this holiday season.

Joy: Practicing Wholeness (Luke 8:48)

“Jesus said, ‘Daughter, you took a risk trusting me, and now you’re healed and whole. Live well, live blessed!’” -Luke 8:48

If you didn’t get a chance to read Sherah-Leigh’s reflection on Monday take a moment to do that now!

Take time this week to journal or think about your hopes for healing and comfort.

Where would you like to experience wholeness? In what area of your life might it take courage to name the comfort and healing you seek?

After taking time to journal about your own self-care, imagine courageously reaching out to Jesus. What fears hold you back from reaching out in hope?

If a phrase or idea comes to mind that is helpful, write it down and refer to it this week and this month. Alternatively, copy the verse from today,”Live well, live blessed!”, and post it where you will read it frequently.

Of course, healing can come in many forms. It might be as simple as admitting you need to keep your doctor’s appointment! So be alert . . .what will “Live well, live blessed.” mean for you?

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And in case you missed it, we wrote a book! Comfort and Joy: Readings and Practices for Advent may be a wonderful companion for you this holiday season. If you are looking for something new, Unhappy Holidays: Blessings for a Blue Christmas is a newly released Advent devotional written by Sherah-Leigh as a gentle guide for those dreading the coming weeks.

Comfort: The Courage to Seek (Luke 8:48)

“Jesus said, ‘Daughter, you took a risk trusting me, and now you’re healed and whole. Live well, live blessed!’” -Luke 8:48

With the setting sun as backdrop, I gathered with my book club. Over brie and chocolate dipped cherries, we shared about what we had read throughout the summer, offering recommendations and adding to our to-be-read lists.

A friend’s upcoming inn-to-inn sojourn in the English countryside called to mind a book I listened to purporting the life-changing benefits of discomfort. As I reflected on the things I disliked and takeaways I appreciated, I noted that inhabiting a female body means routinely being in touch with discomfort. The mental load, changing hormones, monthly cycles, micro (and not so micro) aggressions or glass ceilings– discomfort comes into our lives in many forms.

Our desire for comfort can be problematic. At times we resist change because of the discomfort of the unknown. Capitalism capitalizes on our troubles offering products, fixes and escapes (for a fee, of course). Sometimes, we may inadvertently rebrand self-comfort as self-care justifying extravagance, expense or escapism.

But seeking relief and comfort can also be a spiritual discipline. It takes courage to hold out hope for healing. It is a risk to ask for what we need. Others may confuse our self-honoring for selfishness. Being honest before God about our aches, longings and needs requires bravery.

The account of Jesus healing the woman with chronic bleeding reminds us that seeking relief from our pain requires something from us. Seeking wholeness and well-being may feel risky. It requires tenacity and courage. And yet, like the woman who experienced healing, the pursuit of the comfort of true home- connection and settledness with God- is met with blessing.

Bless my risks, Jesus. Meet my courage with comfort. May I continue to trust in you for shalom in all things. Amen.

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Joy: Receiving Grace (2 Corinthians 7-9)

“No danger then of walking around high and mighty! At first I didn’t think of it as a gift, and begged God to remove it. Three times I did that, and then God told me, ‘My grace is enough; it’s all you need.
My strength comes into its own in your weakness.’” –2 Corinthians 7-9, The Message

We all have 24 hours in a day the gurus and influences proclaim as they peddle their products and courses that promise to make their aspirational life accessible. But that, as the kids these days are saying, is propaganda we’re not falling for anymore.

Our unique circumstances and situations reveal our particular limitations and conditions. When it comes down to commitments, opportunities and expectations, we do not all have the same 24 hours in a day. And comparing or shaming ourselves for not being able to do or achieve as others, doesn’t help any of us.

While it is counterintuitive, the implicit invitation in Paul’s letter is to embrace our limits and pains– not in a silver lining kind of way, but with a kingdom economy view. God does not value what the world does. God does not long for our productivity, perfection or performance. God longs for our love and loyalty.

Take some time this week to reflect on the opportunities that have come through what you at first lamented as a limit. Where was God’s strength revealed through your own weakness? What kingdom possibility emerged in the space of something you had to release?

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Comfort: Suffering (2 Corinthians 12:10)

“Now I take limitations in stride, and with good cheer, these limitations that cut me down to size—abuse, accidents, opposition, bad breaks. I just let Christ take over! And so the weaker I get, the stronger I become.” 2 Corinthians 12:10 The Message

Human beings all suffer. Some of us suffer through prolonged physical pain and illness. Other people suffer from psychological pain. Many others suffer from anxiety or loneliness. Sometimes our suffering becomes evident to others around us and other times we may feel, perhaps rightly so, that no one else knows or understands what we are experiencing.

In the scripture from 2 Corinthians Paul writes about his own limitations and suffering. I don’t think Paul is writing about some minor ailment, since earlier in the chapter he describes begging for God to heal him. Instead of receiving a change in his physical being, Paul is given a change in his point of view. And that changes everything. What a wonderful gift to receive.

I bet you know people like Paul who have turned a weakness into their greatest strength. People who have allowed God’s Spirit to transform their tremendous struggles into loving care for others. I’m sure it did not happen overnight and I bet Paul didn’t feel as upbeat about his suffering every day. But the truth remains that God can transform our pain.

When I read these words from Paul I experience hope. In life there will be suffering. There is nothing we can do to change that. But God can help us turn our weaknesses into our strengths.

God may we have humble spirits and learning souls. Transform our suffering into loving kindness! AMEN

Joy: Practice Routines

In times of grief, anxiety or change, routines can help us, especially ones that keep us connected with our body.

During a recent period of change in my life I found a daily walking schedule was a grounding experience. The changes that were happening in my family life were not under my control and I had trouble finding peace with them. However, these same unwanted changes, also gave me the gift of more time at home. I was able to use the extra time to start a daily walking routine. Walking helped me to expend anxiety, start my day in a predictable way, and breathe deeply in my body.

What routines could you add to your life to help you during times of transition or lament? Here are some ideas. Maybe they will spark some new life-giving routines for this season in your life!

Have a day of the week where you bake bread. Kneading the dough can be a physically grounding pursuit and the weekly smell of fresh bread a gift.
Create an end of the day routine. Perhaps yoga before bed or a prayer reviewing the day as you fall asleep.
Create a routine around dinnertime. Cooking and cleaning up chores around mealtime can make routine moments of connection within yourself or with others in your family group.
Attend a church community each week. This once a week routine has the power to reset my priorities and encourages me to reconnect with God and other people.

What are your lifegiving routines? We’d love to hear from you. Maybe your routine will encourage another reader from the Some Comfort and Joy community. Just click below to share your idea.

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Comfort: Chaos and Creativity (Genesis 1:4-5)

“God saw that light was good and separated light from dark. God named the light Day, God named the dark Night. It was evening, it was morning—Day One.” -Genesis 1:4-5

From the very beginning of time separation and limits, change and rhythm are part of the design. The opening lines of scripture describe our Creator bringing order, life and light to chaos. And it seems that chaos is a prerequisite for creativity. Just ask anyone who shares space with an artist!

And as with so many things in our lives, the reality of the ordinary reveals sacred truth. Often the times of upheaval in our lives is the necessary precursor to growth. If we are honest, we love mystery but not the messiness that comes with the life of faith. In the midst of change we may feel unsettled and anxious. Even if we are eagerly anticipating a new rhythm, routine or season, embracing something new also requires a release of what has been.

Sometimes we need the reminder that limitations are not challenges to overcome nor design flaws to be reformed. Our need for rest and renewal and our finite capacity for connection and care are part of a life of faith and our dependance of God.

The confines of our energy, abilities and longevity invite us to prioritize. We cannot do it all. But we can do some things. What is God’s call to you for this day, with the resources you have in this season?

In the places of chaos and the griefs of my limitations and losses, renew my hope O God. May I trust in the possibility of what yet may be. May I notice signs of your creativity, care and compassion. Amen.

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Poem of Lament

Lament pose

Laying flat on the wet ground
rain washes over me.
The earth girds me
from underneath.

My tears mix with
showers from the sky.
Somehow this pain
will leave me

soaking into the soil.

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Series Intro: Fall Lament

Fall is here and manifesting all the beauty of transition. Flowers change from their glorious colors of summer and work instead at the job of spreading seeds out into the world. Leaves change from supple green light collectors into crunchy brown someday-soil scattered on the ground. I love fall. The cool temperatures and brisk breezes are a relief after the heat of July. Fall also holds a tinge of melancholy in the change it so clearly displays. Change that will lead us into winter.

Change can be good and beautiful and, at the same time, bring lament over all that we are leaving behind. Fall, with all its transition and hints at the coming season of winter, offers us an open door to recognize the sorrow that is also present amid the beauty. Over the next four weeks we will be engaging the topic of lament through stories and passages from scripture, and offering some practices to help us along the way.

Each week we will share a Comfort (a reflection on a story or passage from the Bible) on Monday and a Joy (an activity or mindset to try out during the week) on Thursday. We hope you will join us on the journey!

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Blessing: Summer gifts

long hot afternoons
joint warming heat
ripe sweet corn
juicy tomatoes
campfires crackle
sandy beaches
moutain hikes
cool pools
school’s out
childhood freedom
breezy mornings
change of pace
an invitation
afternoon naps
long books

eyes focused
on the abundance
of summer.

Hoping you experience the blessings of rest and joy this summer!